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bitch
Definition from Wiktionary, a free dictionary

Singular
bitch

Plural
bitches

bitch (plural bitches)

1. (usually humorous or archaic) A female dog or other canine. In particular one who has recently had puppies.

My bitch just had puppies: they’re so cute!

2. (vulgar, derogatory) A female who is malicious, spiteful, unbearable, intrusive, or obnoxious.

Ann gossiped about me and mocked my work; sometimes she can be a real bitch!

* 1913, D. H. Lawrence, Sons and Lovers, I. iv. 60:

‘Look at the children, you nasty little bitch!’ he sneered.

3. (vulgar, derogatory) By extension, a man with any of these qualities, especially a gay man (suggesting his behavior is womanly) or a man who is dishonorable, cowardly, spineless, whiny, or otherwise behaves in a manner unbecoming a man.
* Glenn Close in the movie The Jagged Edge:

You called me a bitch, didn’t you?

4. (humorous, slang, used with a possessive pronoun, usually between women, between gay men and between women and gay men) Friend.

What’s up, my bitch?
How my bitches been doin’?

5. An angry retort directed to a close buddy.

Will you stop this, my bitch??

6. A person in an unfavorable, undesirable position.

When we pile into the car, I tend to be a bitch, stuck in the middle of the back seats.

7. A person who is made to adopt a submissive role in a relationship.

Do you have to ask your girl before you do everything? You must be the bitch in the relationship.

* 1999 September 23, Chris Sheridan, “This House Is Freakin’ Sweet”, “Peter, Peter, Caviar Eater”, Family Guy, season 2, episode 1, Fox Broadcasting Company

Now that you’re stinking rich, we’d gladly be your bitch.

8. (slang) A complaint.
9. (slang, usually only used in the singular) A difficult or confounding problem.

Question 5 was a real bitch, don’t you think?
That’s a bitch of a question. (Or, a bitch of a problem, etc.)

10. (slang) A queen (the playing card)

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* The noun bitch is sometimes diffused by intentional colloquial overuse or misuse. In print, the noun referring to a person is demeaning and sometimes implies that the person being insulted is subservient.
* In professional circles, the noun bitch is sometimes used to refer to intelligent and ambitious women with a high level of sex-appeal who use those qualities to achieve their goals.
* In the sense of an aggressive woman, this term is generally derogatory when used by men (and often when used by women), but, it is also used by some women to refer to themselves positively in a form of reclamation. It is important to note that many people do not believe that “bitch” is able to be reclaimed, because of its continued pejorative usage. Thus, the term is both potentially liberatory while also being controversial.

[edit] Synonyms

* (female dog, etc): female (when the species is specified or implied)
* (malicious, etc, woman): cow
* (malicious, etc, man): bastard
* (jocular slang, one’s friend):
* (person in an unfavorable, undesirable position):
* (person in a relationship who is made to adopt a submissive role): doormat
* (a complaint): gripe, grumble, kvetch, moan, whinge
* (difficult or confounding problem): toughie, stinker, pain in the ass
* (to talk about):

[edit] Derived terms

* bitch fight
* bitching
* bitch slap
* bitch switch
* bitchy
* bull-bitch
* flip a bitch
* life’s a bitch
* payback is a bitch, payback’s a bitch
* son of a bitch, sonofabitch

[edit] Translations
[show ▼]female canine

* Aramaic:

Syriac: ܟܠܒܬܐ (kalbtā’) f.
Hebrew: כלבתא (kalbtā’) f.

* Armenian: քած hy(hy) (qats)
* Bosnian: kuja bs(bs) f.
* Breton: kiez br(br) f.
* Bulgarian: кучка bg(bg) (kučka) f.
* Central Atlas Tamazight: ⵜⴰⵢⴷⵉⵜ (taydit) f.
* Chinese: 母狗 (mǔgǒu)
* Czech: fena cs(cs) f.
* Danish: tæve da(da) c. (female dog)
* Dutch: teef nl(nl) f.
* Esperanto: hundino eo(eo) (dog), lupino eo(eo) (wolf), vulpino eo(eo) (fox)
* Ewe: avunɔ f.
* Finnish: narttu fi(fi)
* French: chienne fr(fr) f. (dog), louve fr(fr) f. (wolf), renarde fr(fr) f. (fox) f.
* German: Hündin de(de) f., Wölfin de(de) f., Füchsin de(de) f., Kojotin de(de) f., Schakalin de(de) f.
* Greek: σκύλα el(el) (skila) f.
* Hebrew: כלבה he(he) (kalba) f.
* Hindi: कुत्तियाँ hi(hi) f.
* Hungarian: szuka hu(hu), nőstény hu(hu)
* Interlingua: can ia(ia) f.
* Italian: cagna it(it) f.
* Japanese: 雌犬 (めすいぬ, mesuinu), いけいけ ja(ja) (ikeike)

* Korean: 암캐 (amkae)
* Latvian: kuce lv(lv) f.
* Lithuanian: kalė lt(lt) f.
* Macedonian: кучка mk(mk) (kúčka) f.
* Malayalam: കൂത്തിപ്പട്ടി (kūθθippaʈʈi)
* Maltese: kelba mt(mt) f.
* Norwegian: tispe no(no) f.
* Novial: hunda
* Occitan: canha oc(oc) f.
* Polish: suka pl(pl) f.
* Portuguese: cadela pt(pt) f., cachorra pt(pt) f.
* Romanian: căţea ro(ro) f., căţele ro(ro) f. pl.
* Russian: сука ru(ru) (súka) f.
* Scottish Gaelic: cù boireann m.
* Serbian: psica sr(sr) f., kučka sr(sr) f., suka sr(sr) f., kuja sr(sr) f.
* Slovak: suka sk(sk) f.
* Slovene: psica sl(sl) f.
* Spanish: perra es(es) f.
* Swedish: tik sv(sv) c., hynda sv(sv)
* Taos: kwíanena
* Telugu: ఆడకుక్క (aaDakukka)
* Ugaritic: klbt f.
* Volapük: jidog vo(vo), jilup vo(vo), jirenar vo(vo)
* Welsh: gast cy(cy)

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masc. fem. neuter common gender plural
Transliteration: (e.g. ázbuka for азбука)

Page name: (e.g. amo for amō)

Qualifier: (e.g. literally, formally, slang)

Script template: (e.g. Cyrl for Cyrillic, Latn for Latin)

[show ▼]spiteful woman

* Armenian: քած hy(hy) (qats)
* Bosnian: kučka bs(bs) f.
* Breton: louskenn br(br) f., liboudenn br(br) f.
* Bulgarian: кучка bg(bg) (kučka) f., курва bg(bg) (kurva) f., развратница (razvratnica) f.
* Chinese: trad. 賤人, simpl. 贱人 (pinyin: jiànrén); 婊子 (biǎozi); trad. 娼婦, simpl. 娼妇 (pinyin: chāngfù)
* Czech: kurva cs(cs) f.
* Danish: kælling da(da)
* Dutch: slet nl(nl) f., bitch nl(nl) f.
* Esperanto: aĉulino eo(eo), fiulino eo(eo)
* Finnish: narttu fi(fi)
* French: chienne fr(fr) f., chipie fr(fr) f., garce fr(fr) f., salope fr(fr) f., rosse fr(fr) f., catin fr(fr) f.
* German: Zicke de(de) f.
* Greek: σκύλα el(el) (skíla) f.
* Hebrew: כלבה he(he) (kalba) f.
* Hungarian: kurva hu(hu), luvnya hu(hu), lotyó hu(hu), ribanc hu(hu), ribi hu(hu), ringyó hu(hu), szajha hu(hu)
* Interlingua: puta, putana f.
* Italian: stronza it(it) f., troia it(it) f.

* Japanese: すべた (subeta), じゃじゃ馬 ja(ja) (jajauma), 阿婆擦れ ja(ja) (abazure) (various spellings), 尼 ja(ja) (ama) (various spellings)
* Latvian: kuce lv(lv) f.
* Lithuanian: kalė lt(lt) f.
* Macedonian: кучка mk(mk) (kúčka) f.
* Maltese: qaħba mt(mt) f.
* Norwegian: tispe no(no) f.
* Occitan: chispa oc(oc) f., solharda oc(oc) f.
* Polish: suka pl(pl) f., dziwka pl(pl) f., kurwa pl(pl) f.
* Portuguese: puta pt(pt) f., vagabunda pt(pt) f.
* Romanian: căţea ro(ro) f.
* Russian: сука ru(ru) (súka) f., стерва ru(ru) (stérva) f., мегера ru(ru) (megéra) f.
* Scottish Gaelic: galla f., strìopach f., nighean na galla f.
* Slovak: suka sk(sk) f., kurva sk(sk) f.
* Spanish: puta es(es) f., ramera es(es) f., arpía es(es) f., zorra es(es) f., perra es(es) f.
* Swedish: slyna sv(sv) c., subba sv(sv) c.

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masc. fem. neuter common gender plural
Transliteration: (e.g. ázbuka for азбука)

Page name: (e.g. amo for amō)

Qualifier: (e.g. literally, formally, slang)

Script template: (e.g. Cyrl for Cyrillic, Latn for Latin)

[show ▼]spiteful man, especially a gay man

* Dutch: poot nl(nl) m.

* Russian: жопочник ru(ru) (žópočnik) m.
* Spanish: puto es(es) m.

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masc. fem. neuter common gender plural
Transliteration: (e.g. ázbuka for азбука)

Page name: (e.g. amo for amō)

Qualifier: (e.g. literally, formally, slang)

Script template: (e.g. Cyrl for Cyrillic, Latn for Latin)

[show ▼]jocular slang: one’s friend

* Russian: шурак ru(ru) (šurák) m., кореш ru(ru) (kóreš) m.

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masc. fem. neuter common gender plural
Transliteration: (e.g. ázbuka for азбука)

Page name: (e.g. amo for amō)

Qualifier: (e.g. literally, formally, slang)

Script template: (e.g. Cyrl for Cyrillic, Latn for Latin)

[show ▼]person in an unfavorable, undesirable position

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masc. fem. neuter common gender plural
Transliteration: (e.g. ázbuka for азбука)

Page name: (e.g. amo for amō)

Qualifier: (e.g. literally, formally, slang)

Script template: (e.g. Cyrl for Cyrillic, Latn for Latin)

[show ▼]person in relationship who is made to adopt a submissive role

* Dutch: bitch m. & f.

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masc. fem. neuter common gender plural
Transliteration: (e.g. ázbuka for азбука)

Page name: (e.g. amo for amō)

Qualifier: (e.g. literally, formally, slang)

Script template: (e.g. Cyrl for Cyrillic, Latn for Latin)

[show ▼]a complaint

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masc. fem. neuter common gender plural
Transliteration: (e.g. ázbuka for азбука)

Page name: (e.g. amo for amō)

Qualifier: (e.g. literally, formally, slang)

Script template: (e.g. Cyrl for Cyrillic, Latn for Latin)

[show ▼]difficult or confounding problem

* French: casse-tête fr(fr) m.

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masc. fem. neuter common gender plural
Transliteration: (e.g. ázbuka for азбука)

Page name: (e.g. amo for amō)

Qualifier: (e.g. literally, formally, slang)

Script template: (e.g. Cyrl for Cyrillic, Latn for Latin)

[edit] References

* Weisenberg, Michael (2000) The Official Dictionary of Poker. MGI/Mike Caro University. ISBN 978-1880069523

[edit] Verb

Infinitive
to bitch

Third person singular
bitches

Simple past
bitched

Past participle
bitched

Present participle
bitching

to bitch (third-person singular simple present bitches, present participle bitching, simple past and past participle bitched)

1. (transitive, with “about”) To make derogatory comments (about a person).

Look, I saw you bitching about me yesterday, I know how you feel: why can’t you say it to my face?

2. (transitive, with “about”) To criticize (something) spitefully, often for the sake of complaining rather than in order to have the problem corrected.

All you ever do is bitch about the food I cook for you!

[edit] Synonyms

* (make derogatory comments (about someone)): badmouth, slag off (UK), snipe at
* (complain spitefully (about something)): gripe about/at, grumble about/at, kvetch about/at, moan about/at, piss and moan about/at, sniff at, whine about/at, whinge about/at
* See also Wikisaurus:complain

Macrophilia
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Macrophilia is the sexual attraction to larger people. Macrophilia has two main forms: the shrinking of self and the enlargement of others. Some people in online macrophilia communities may be opposed to either form based on their own personal preference, but both are technically forms of macrophilia.

Macrophilia is not the opposite of microphilia, although it is close enough to be considered the opposite. These phenomena are two sides of the same coin with macrophiles fantasizing about larger beings, microphiles fantasizing about smaller beings and a crossover contingent fantasizing about both.

Macrophiliac fantasies take several forms depending on the individual: with focus on hands, feet, breasts, genitals or mouth of the object of desire, involving either sexual or asexual encounters, with or without consent of either party. However not all macrophiliac fantasies involve sexual situations. Subgroups such as growing, and in particular growing too large to fit in tight spaces are also common macrophiliac fantasy topics.

Since the existence of giants and giantesses is strictly fantastic, macrophiles must depend on their own imaginations or pornography to fulfil such desires (morphed pictures, montages, self made videos, artwork, and fantasy writings). Lately a program called Poser has been used to create digital simulations of macrophilic situations. Such production of macrophilic pornographic material (both heterosexual and homosexual) has become a growing enterprise in the first decade of the 21st century.
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* 1 Macro Community
o 1.1 Human Macrophilia
o 1.2 Furry Macrophilia
* 2 Aspects of Macrophilia
* 3 Origins
* 4 Related Interests
* 5 See also
* 6 External links

[edit] Macro Community

[edit] Human Macrophilia

A large section of a nascent heterosexual oriented online community refers to its fetish as “GTS”, an abbreviation for “giantess”. Within some communities erotica and pornographic imagery are grouped into two main categories: “Growth”, in which someone has been enlarged and interacts with a normal-sized environment (“MEGA” being a subset in which the giant person can range from 200 feet tall to planetary proportions to even bigger, theoretical sizes still), and “Shrink”, which documents the interaction between a person (generally male) reduced to miniature stature and a normal-sized person. Though exceptions exist, the majority of heterosexual graphic images and literature focus on the male perspective, where the man is the smaller person.

It appears much less common for women to develop this fetish entirely on their own. This is not to say it is entirely impossible, as women are being seen more commonly throughout the online giantess community as it continues to grow. Several notable females within the giantess community have come forth with the full giantess fetish, without being introduced to it first. Some women may learn to enjoy participating in it after being introduced to the phenomenon by male fetishists, although not initially having it. Due to the lack of open females within the giantess community very little information is known about why or how females develop macrophilia. Over time more information may become present.

The macrophilia paraphilia exists in both homosexual and heterosexual communities, and across a wide spectrum of cultures. While online representation is predominantly English-language, there exists a burgeoning, prolific Japanese bloc of macrophilaic/microphilic artwork and literature, and French and German communities are growing as well.

[edit] Furry Macrophilia

Another group of growing macrophiles are macrofurries. A subgroup of the furry fandom community, they are similar to human macrophiles except that anthropomorphic beasts are used instead of humans. While commonly animals such as wolves, bears, felines, or other predatory animals are used for furry macrophilic interaction, it is not uncommon to see any species of animal open to enlarging, even mystical or fantastical creatures or hybrids are open, such as dragons or unicorns.

For the most part they have similar interests to human macrophiles as well. Foot fixation, rampaging (sexual arousal from watching, or being, a large furry and destroying property and/or human or other sentient life), Vorarephilia, and aspects of frottage and voyeurism are commonly exhibited during furry macrophilia roleplaying, drawing, or writing as well. However, some interests are specific to this subgroup of the -philia, or at least are not nearly as popular in the giantess community. Inflation being the most obvious of these, this being growth through the expansion of a rubber or rubber like substance that a furry has unnaturally turned into.

The act of growing, however, seems to be by far the most common act of the macrophilic scene in general, and furry macrophilia holds no exceptions to this rule. Magic, science, and/or inner emotions all have been used as excuses or reasons to have seemingly normal animals grow and become macrophilic creatures.

Furry macrophilia, as human macrophilia, has a large hetero- and homosexual fan base, with a good number being bisexual as well. Another fairly unique aspect to furry macrophilia is the use of hermaphrodites.

[edit] Aspects of Macrophilia

Macrophilia and microphilia also refer to sexual attraction towards a person of height but not to an unreal, physically impossible extent. These traits are almost universally possessed by both men and women, as many people regard height as playing a role in sexual attraction. However Macrophiles sometimes find greater heights to be more sexually arousing, with “megaphiles” being the extreme case, in which planetary or theoretical heights are fantasized about. Macrophiles and microphiles commonly want the larger person to do things to them, such as step or stomp on them. Some might consider this evidence of sadism/masochism and/or crush fixations, in which a sexual thrill is gained by the act of crushing, being crushed, or seeing small creatures crushed beneath a foot, a shoe, stomach, buttocks, etc. Very specific subsets of macrophilia exist, the most common being podophilia (foot fetishism), in which pleasure might be obtained from either gentle or violent interaction (small creatures being stepped on, for example), and Vorarephilia, in which the smaller individual is swallowed by the larger. Other interests displayed by some macrophiles include a desire to be stashed somewhere on the giant’s body, or within the giant’s body (also known as Endosomaphilia) or in a piece of clothing, to be bathed in another’s sexual fluids, or to attempt frotteurism, either masturbation by rubbing the smaller person’s body against the giant person’s genitals or entering the other’s genitals. Macrophiles might also enjoy witnessing the larger person cause destruction of the area around them. Some macrophiles derive particular enjoyment from seeing cars being crushed by giant men or women, again, particularly if crushed under their feet. Men in particular may fantasize about being giants themselves, demolishing cities and crushing cars. It is important to note that very few likes and dislikes are held by every macrophile, making it difficult to generalize macrophilic fantasies beyond the inclusion of size disparity.

[edit] Origins

Macrophilia usually manifests itself in very early childhood, when children with macrophilic tendencies often experience a sexual or pseudo-sexual response to giants (e.g.-in fairytales, animated cartoons, movies, etc.) long before physical puberty — but this is not commonly known, because the fetish has been (until recently) considered a “guilty pleasure”. Macrophiles are extremely shy about their tendencies, even among sympathetic peers, and to a greater degree than other fetishists commonly in fear of being judged and ridiculed. Recently, however, this fetish has become more widely acceptable to others.

Outsiders frequently suppose the macrophile phenomenon stems from mother- or father-lust or an inordinate desire to return to childhood, citing the giant’s or giantess’ impatience with the tiny man, or the tiny man’s tendency towards misbehaviour, though many macrophiles are quick to reject and dismiss these theories as uninformed generalizations that miss the mark. Also, recurrent macrophilic themes of domination and/or violence committed by the giant(s) are often misinterpreted as masochistic self-hatred and identity-negation — when, in fact, they are primarily invoked to emphasize the power of the dominator over the dominated. This being so, it is true that some macrophiles are also interested, or at least curious, in the practice of BDSM. More controlling personalities, especially those that are shy or normally not considered fit for leadership positions, also seem to flock to these two paraphilias, BDSM and macrophilia, as outlets. However other macrophiles do not see nongiant entities in dominance or submissive roles as attractive. This in turn is another reason why origins or analysis of the paraphilia is so difficult, as personal preference is so varied that generalizations can almost never be made.

[edit] Related Interests

Macrophilia — just as other fantasies — might blend or share common ground with other particular sexual behaviours. There also exist, for example, macrophile furries/macrofurs who may be found in online communities sharing artwork, histories, experiences or points of view regarding that interest. It may touch upon vorarephilia in which the giant devours the smaller subject whole. Frequently online heterosexual macrophile communities share links with Amazon fetishism, featuring women possessed of overly developed musculature who enjoy abusing hapless male victims either through overbearing sexual acts or outright physical violence and torture, often with vengeance or misandry as motivation. Another interest that shows up from time to time is a spin on voyeurism, where a tiny person is in the presence of a larger person who is unaware of his or her presence. There are as many other obscure crossovers as can be imagined–for many macrophiles, the macrophilia is but one of many sexual interests.

[edit] See also

* Sadism and masochism
* Paraphilia
* Microphilia
* Unbirth
* Sexual fetishism
* Vorarephilia
* Voyeurism

[edit] External links

* Offscale – An online community based forum/irc.
* Lava Dome Five – Introduction to Macrophilia, by Samuel Ramses, M.D., Ph.D.
* Giantess City Forum – Giantess Discussion and artwork/collage sharing Forums
* Giantess Magic Forum – Giantess Discussion Forums
* (English) (Spanish) The Other Size.com – Compilation of videos, pictures, stories and miscellany related to macrophilia
* (English) (Italian) Giganta.org – Giantess lovers’ community, with forum, stories, collages, links
* (English) Coiled Fist – Community based gay macrophilia forum.

Definition of Ass worship

Wikipedia English – The Free Encyclopedia
Ass worship
Ass worship (or booty worship) generally describes a sexual obsession with the buttocks and/or anus; or any type of sexual game in which a submissive is motivated by a real or pretend attraction to their partner’s “ass”.

Ass worship may also describe a BDSM practice in which a submissive kisses and licks the buttocks and/or anus of the dominant partner (this definition is very similar to rimming). It is considered by some as a particularly degrading form of domination and will usually involve the sub kneeling or in another lowly position, treating to person being worshipped as the dominant. In particular face sitting or smothering may be applied in order to emphasize the control of the dominant over the submissive. A queening stool may also be used to facilitate this activity. Ass worship commonly involves a woman in the dominant role (femdom) and a submissive man, however it is also practiced by homosexuals of both genders.

Gay slang

Gay slang refers to slang used predominantly among gay and lesbian people.

Slang frequently arises from the need of a particular subculture to create or maintain secrecy or to describe situations, acts and things not common in the dominant culture.

Assimilation and use of the slang also gives individuals the feeling of belonging necessary in the creation of a subculture.

Many terms that were originally gay slang have become part of the popular lexicon. Along with other terms, the term “drag,” originally a Polari (British gay slang) word, was popularized by Hubert Selby, Jr in his book Last Exit to Brooklyn. He is also the author of Requiem for a Dream.

A

* Ambisextrous – bisexual (occasionally “ambisexual”)
* Aroma — poppers, amyl nitrite

B

* Baby dyke — A young, inexperienced and/or boyish lesbian
* Back room/backroom – A darkened room set aside for sex (sometimes group sex) in a club, bar or bathhouse
* Bareback – unprotected sex, especially anal sex
* Baths – gay bathhouses or saunas
* Bear – a hairy, often overweight, frequently bearded man
* Bicurious – a heterosexual who wishes to “experiment” with their sexuality
* Blanche – a term of endearment (see Mary)
* Bottom – the receptive partner in anal sex; the submissive partner
* Breeder – derogatory term for a heterosexual person
* Bugchaser – an HIV negative individual who seeks to be infected with the virus, generally through unprotected receptive anal sex; see also Gift. Also bugchasing.
* Bulldagger – a butch lesbian who dresses and behaves in a masculine fashion
* Bulldyke – see Bulldagger
* Butch – masculine

C

* Camp – ironic, affected, frequently effeminate behaviour; stereotypical gay behaviour; ironically bitchy. Also Camping, Camping it up
* CBT – Cock and Ball Torture
* Chicken – a young, teenage, boyish, or young-looking gay male; an underage boy
* Chicken hawk – an older man who prefers younger men; occasionally: a paedophile
* Circuit party – one of several huge parties for gay men held in various locations throughout North America each year (the circuit).
* The Closet – the figurative hiding place of gays and lesbians who are not open about their homosexuality
* Coming out (of the closet) – revealing one’s homosexuality
* Cruise – to look for a sex partner in areas known for this activity; to stare at someone with the intention of attracting his or her attention; flirt
* Cruisy – a place that is known as a Cruising spot
* Cub – a younger bear
* Cottage – a public lavatory (particularly in British English)
* Cottaging – having sex in public lavatories (still widely known, but falling into disuse)
* Cut – circumcised

D

* Daddy – an older, frequently larger, sometimes bearish man (or occasionally, woman) who takes a fatherly role in the relationship

E

* English – caning for sexual pleasure

F

* F2M/FTM – a transsexual man (from “female To male”)
* Fag/Faggot – an effeminate boy or man; a male homosexual (used in the same way as nigger by some black Americans)
* Fag Hag – a woman who prefers the company of gay men; the female best friend of a gay man (sometimes considered pejorative)
* Fay/Fey – effeminate
* Fem/Femme – feminine; effeminate
* Feltch – ejaculating in another person’s anus and then rimming the person
* Fish – derogatory word for a woman
* Flame – to behave in an extremely effeminate, campy manner. Also Flamer, Flaming
* Friend of Dorothy – a homosexual (refers to Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz, or possibly to Dorothy Parker)
* Fuck buddy – someone with whom one has sex but with whom one is not involved in a relationship
* Fur – body hair

G

* GAM – Gay Asian Male
* GBM – Gay Black Male
* Gaydar – the supposed ability to detect another peron’s homosexuality by just observing. Also Doppler Gaydar (from the character Jack in the TV show Will & Grace) and the name of a dating website.
* Glory hole – a hole used for anonymous sexual activity, often in a public lavatory
* Greek – anal sex
* Gift – an STD, usually HIV. Used by a particular subset of Barebackers who actively seek HIV infection; see Bugchaser.
* Gift giver – someone who passes on an STD, usually HIV. Used by a particular subset of Barebackers who actively seek HIV infection; see Bugchaser.
* GLBT – Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgendered
* GM – Gay Male
* Gym Bunny/Gym Queen – a gay man who works out in a gym
* GWM – Gay White Male

H

* Handballing – Fisting
* Het – heterosexual
* Heteroflexible – bisexual with a hetero dominance, see bicurious
* Hung – well endowed

L

* Label Queen – a gay man who prefers designer clothing
* Lesbigay/LesBiGay – Lesbian, Bisexual and Gay
* Lipstick Lesbian – a feminine lesbian

M

* M2F, MTF – a transsexual woman (from “male to female”)
* M2M – Male to Male (sex)
* Mary – an effeminte gay man; a term of endearment (often used in a similar way to “fag”) (see Blanche)
* Meat – penis
* Muscle Mary – a gay man who works out in a gym (see Gym Bunny/Gym Queen); a muscular yet effeminate gay man
* Muscle Queen – a man who prefers muscular men

N

* Neg – HIV- (HIV negative)

O

* Otter – a gay or bisexual man who meets the description of a bear, except being of normal or sub-normal weight
* Out/Out of the Closet – a person who is openly homosexual
* To Out/Outing – publicly disclosing another person’s homosexuality, usually against their will or without their knowledge

P

* Pass – passing means to appear correctly as something, for example a gay man can “pass” as heterosexual or a male-to-female transsexual can “pass” as a woman
* Pos/Poz – HIV+ (HIV positive)
* Potato queen – coined as the opposite of “rice queen”: an Asian man who prefers white men (sometimes considered pejorative)

Q

* Queen – an effeminate gay man; a drag queen

R

* Rent/Rent boy – a male prostitute (ie “working to pay the rent”); noun and verb.
* Rice queen – a non-Asian man who prefers Asians (sometimes considered pejorative)
* Rimming – licking the anus of a sex partner

S

* The Scene – the gay club circuit
* Scene Queen – a gay man who loves to party
* Seeker – a man who seeks infection with an STD (usually HIV). See Gift, Gift Giver, Bugchaser.
* Size queen – a man who prefers large penises
* Sister – a term of endearment between gay men and drag queens (see Blanche, Mary)
* Smooth – hairless
* Straight – heterosexual
* Stud – a promiscuous gay man or butch lesbian

T

* Tearoom – a public lavatory where men meet for sex
* Tranny/Trannie – transgendered person (considered offensive by some)
* Top – the insertive partner in anal sex; the dominant partner
* Tourist – a (usually heterosexual) person who visits known gay areas to “look”
* Trick – a prostitute’s customer (a John); a sex partner; a sexual act for money; to have sex
* Troll – to walk around looking for sex (cruise); an older or undesirable men; a man in a bathhouse or cruising area who continues to make advances even when rebuffed
* Twink/Twinky/Twinkie – a young or young-looking man, especially those who are slender and clean cut

U

* Uncut – uncircumcised

V

* Versatile – a person who will take either top or bottom positions in sex

W

* Water Sports/Watersports – urine fetish
* Well Hung – see Hung

Y

* Yestergay – a person who identified as gay in the past, but who does so no longer

External links

* GLTB Slang Dictionary
* Polari: British Gay Slang
* Queer Slang in the Gay 90′s
* Dictionary of Gay Slang and Historical Terms
* GAY SLANG DICTIONARY
* qWords — names for queers

sub·mis·sive (sb-msv)
adj.
Inclined or willing to submit.
sub·missive·ly adv.
sub·missive·ness n.

The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition copyright ©2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Updated in 2009. Published by Houghton Mifflin Company. All rights reserved.
submissive
Adjective
showing quiet obedience
submissively adv
submissiveness n

Collins Essential English Dictionary 2nd Edition 2006 © HarperCollins Publishers 2004, 2006
ThesaurusLegend: Synonyms Related Words Antonyms
Adj. 1. submissive – inclined or willing to submit to orders or wishes of others or showing such inclination; “submissive servants”; “a submissive reply”; “replacing troublemakers with more submissive people”
unassertive – inclined to timidity or lack of self-confidence; “a shy unassertive person”
obedient – dutifully complying with the commands or instructions of those in authority; “an obedient soldier”; “obedient children”; “a little man obedient to his wife”; “the obedient colonies…are heavily taxed; the refractory remain unburdened”- Edmund Burke
humble – marked by meekness or modesty; not arrogant or prideful; “a humble apology”; “essentially humble…and self-effacing, he achieved the highest formal honors and distinctions”- B.K.Malinowski
subordinate – subject or submissive to authority or the control of another; “a subordinate kingdom”
domineering – tending to domineer
2. submissive – abjectly submissive; characteristic of a slave or servant; “slavish devotion to her job ruled her life”; “a slavish yes-man to the party bosses”- S.H.Adams; “she has become submissive and subservient”
slavish, subservient
servile – submissive or fawning in attitude or behavior; “spoke in a servile tone”; “the incurably servile housekeeper”; “servile tasks such as floor scrubbing and barn work”
Based on WordNet 3.0, Farlex clipart collection. © 2003-2008 Princeton University, Farlex Inc.
submissive
adjective meek, passive, obedient, compliant, patient, resigned, yielding, accommodating, humble, subdued, lowly, abject, amenable, docile, dutiful, ingratiating, malleable, deferential, pliant, obsequious, uncomplaining, tractable, acquiescent, biddable, unresisting, bootlicking (informal) obeisant << OPPOSITE obstinate

Sexual Primates
From Real Social Dynamics Wiki

By Pimpski

When you see a woman behave in bed, you are seeing her in her purist feminine form. This is the point where you are all man, and she is all woman. Masculine/Feminine, Yin/Yang, polar oppositions creating a whole. And this “whole” (pun intended) is our basis of interaction. This means that when we experience a woman before sleeping with them then we are essentially seeing a tame version of the sexual creature they truly are.

It has been said that “who we are as people and who we are in bed” as having zero correlation. If you think about it, the most highly valued guy in the world can have the most bizarre sexual fetishes and its totally cool with everyone else because of his higher social value. Which brings up a point, where your social value is worth more then your sexual judgments. Hypothetically, socially acceptable sexuality is determined by the person with the highest social value in the group.

But what does this mean for Pickup? It means that there are certain patterns of behavior that can become synonymous with sexual performance. Start to notice them. It is obvious as mammals that our sexual reproduction mechanisms have its fair share of auto-pilot mate selection. Lets apply the 80/20 rule to this, where 80% is primal and 20% is social. (Obviously there are exceptions, as with everything) We’re still primitive on a survival level, especially when you consider that the largest indicator of sexuality is the health of your body which has been echoed into traits such as body fat percentage, muscle mass, and energy levels in addition to the cosmetic standards we succumb ourselves to on a daily basis. The amount of grooming necessary to keep our bodies amongst the standards of social acceptability takes up a vast majority of our time. It changes by the second as new trends are fashioned while our shift in social value uncovers a new side of population that gets its share of the lime light for only a limited amount of time.

I’m beginning to see a hierarchy here. The first encounter with a girl is always superficial, and although possibly leading to sex, does not uncover the depths of that person as a human being. Nowhere near it. So effectively, there is an iceberg in getting to know someone in the sense that it starts off exposed to the world then slowly deepens and gets wider. At the same time it is getting darker, and darker by the second. More and more secrets and realizations about people face acceptance in the eyes of another, and once that has been validated a bond is formed. A real friend knows everything fucked up about you, and still likes you for it. Once you get to know someone to the core, you’re first impression of them disappears completely. It’s a totally different person.

So back that up a bit. If your Self is always shining through then we understand that the person we present is only an echo of the true self, which has been masked by what our sense of acceptance deems as representation of our place in the social hierarchy (which I just realized is also in the shape of an iceberg. Interesting). The 80/20 rule would associate 80% self and 20% social conditioning.

The Centre for Restorative Justice associated with Simon Fraser University School of Criminology in Canada present this diagram which I literally just found as I was typing this: http://www.sfu.ca/cfrj/images/iceberg.gif

I have no idea who these people are but they’re thinking exactly the same way that I am. If you notice on the diagram, the only thing external is your actions. Actions are all anyone gets to see. This is the sense of self that you have in which other people can outright judge you by. Underneath are feelings and even deeper are values: Our core at the bottom with the most weight.

So how does this apply to attraction? Easy. What a girl displays externally (action based) is a mimic of a deeper, darker desire underneath. Each mannerism and action given on a surface level is an echo of intent from the core. Learning to interpret this sexual language is crucial. The surface level where we pull girls home is an echo from our desires for survival. That’s why we go “caveman.” Our 20% social selves mean nothing in the grand scheme of things.

However, we need to overcome this “social value” barrier which is getting in the way of our sex. The best way to win a fight is to avoid it. The only link between sexuality and social acceptance is publicity. Publicity creates associations and isolation to those exposed, and this is a major fear we as people deal with. Sexuality is the ultimate indicator for who you are at the core if fully embraced outside of social standards. No one is there to judge you but the person you just encountered. Tyler brought up this excellent point in his Blogspot “The GFs friends” in which he said how these very classy girls who you would consider very high value can sleep with 4 guys and its perfectly fine. Sexuality has nothing to do with what type of person you are. Since the type of person you are is based on actions, only 20% is exposed and social. The other 80% is hidden and sexual.

The issue that we are trying to crack as a community is how to break from that “social” 20% to the “sexual” 80%. To do so, we work on creating a situation where both male and female accept their ultimate roles as polar opposites and expose the true self.

When does society say its OK to go caveman (and women) simultaneously? When the lights are out and no one’s around.

How do we communicate through the masks of society on a sexual level? Tonality and body language.

The self is always shining through and our intention is coming from the core, therefore if our intentions are purely sexual from the beginning then our sexuality will shine through. It is important for use to fully understand that we need to be ready for a sexual encounter at any time. If you are not then we will miss opportunities and act chode. Just as with everything else, if you keep your eye on your goal and have absolute faith that it will be accomplished, then it is only a matter of time before you make it there. Napoleon Hill talks about this in his book “Think and Grow Rich.” In the wise words of a supernatural friend of mine, “Don’t expect it, but don’t be surprised if it happens either.”

This is where being a MAN comes in. As Masculine, we are positive while Feminine are negative (not in the moody way). Men give, women receive. Men are dominate, women are submissive. Man is pushing, woman is pulling. (This is true throughout the entire iceberg scale of getting to know someone ) Men must lead and women must follow. This just re-enforces the importance of dominance and allowing your primal instinct of sexuality empower you. Ozzie always says “Be leading” and this is precisely why. This is what we are supposed to do.

We can see beyond social conditioning into primal mechanisms of action, but first we must adjust our eyes to it. Look past the actions of a girl and focus what’s underneath. See her for the sexual creature that she is and not what your social conditioning tells you she is based on the words she says and the clothes she wears. Block that shit out if you can. You’ll never have to worry about a shit test again in your life. Just go Caveman.